One Long Streak Ends Here

Since April 2013, I have been blogging continuously for 116 months consecutively at least one blog post per month. And that’s around 183 blog posts in total. I have been doing this religiously despite difficulties and challenges. I even vividly remember writing and publishing one on the day of my wedding reception. But that long streak ends here.

One of the main reasons for this decision is that, At times, I find myself churning up some content just for the sake of publishing one for that month and not enjoying the writing process. If you know me personally, I totally hate to do things for namesake. At times, I get hit by writer’s block and have nothing much on my head to write about, and it becomes quite stressful. And, most of all, no one reads my blog posts these days (except a very few).

It doesn’t mean I am going to discontinue blogging forever. It’s something I love. So, will definitely write one when I really feel like writing one and have something exciting to share. And, just that it’s not going to be as frequent as before.

Bye. Until next blog post.

Trip To Remember – HiTech Hyderabad – Part 2

Day 3 – 11th Sep 2021

It’s already been a couple of months since I wrote the Part 1 post on this trip, and it’s high time to complete this series before this year ends. My mind voice be like, isn’t it too much to term a couple of blog posts as a series and all. But who cares.

Despite a tiring day, long night, and a ton of food last night, we woke up a bit early for the day. Undoubtedly, the primary motivation for this was also food only. As planned, we started around 6.30 am and traveled all the way to Succendarabad to taste the Kheema Roti at the 68-year-old Main Branch of the most famous Paradise Hotel. The Kheema Rotti was super yummy, and just one portion was sumptuous for breakfast. How could we miss having some Irani Tea after such a heavy meal? So, we headed to the bakery on the other side of the hotel and sipped some hot and comforting Irani Chai. After our Breakfast and Tea, Sashi decided to head home to freshen up, and we decided to roam around in the meanwhile.

Our first stop was one of the most iconic places in Hyderabad. In fact, it’s one of the places that symbolize Hyderabad. I was a bit excited, cos I missed visiting there on my previous two trips to the City of Nizams. After driving through narrow streets, we finally reached the bank of the most famous landmark, the Hussain Sagar Lake, AKA The Tank Bund. Just next to the spot where we parked our car, we saw a flock of Pigeons occupying the nearby trees. While Rocket and Kavi were busy feeding them with grains sold at a nearby shop, I was busy going behind them clicking pictures. Of course, that’s something I can’t afford to miss.

From there, we took a long walk to Lumbini Park, a small park that’s adjacent to the lake, and from where they operate ferries to the Budha Statue, located right in the middle of the lake. It seems we were there quite early and had to wait a bit longer. Meanwhile, we played on the swings there (after ages) and literally felt like a bunch of kids. Finally, the long wait was over, and we boarded the ferry that would take us to the statue and back. As we neared the platform, I was awed and speechless, looking at the gigantic statue. The 18 meters tall Budha Monolyth looked splendid and sculptured out of solid white granite rock. Luckily, there weren’t many people. So, I enjoyed clicking pics of the statue and us. After spending a few mins, the ferry returned us to Lumbini Park. Once out of there, Kavi’s friend from Hyderabad dropped by to catch up with her. In the meanwhile, Rocket and I went searching for a carwash nearby.

After meeting her friend, Kavi joined us back at the car wash place. With nothing much to do till the evening, we quickly discussed with Sashi over the phone and decided to hit the theatres to watch the recently released Shang-Chi. And, the Marvel fan in me couldn’t be any happier. At the same time, our stomachs started growling out of hunger, and to comfort it, we planned to finish our lunch at the same mall where the theatre is. Then, something funny happened. Due to some communication gap and not paying enough attention to the tickets shared, we drove to the wrong mall while Shashi was waiting for us in the right one. Luckily, the one we were supposed to go to is not too far from the one we ended up in. As Shashi reached earlier, he narrowed down Taco Bell amongst the other options available at the mall. Though it was my first time there, I instantly fell in love with their’s Naked Chicken Tacco and the Firey Hot Sauce. And, the movie was also quite funny and entertaining. From there, we headed straight to our room to freshen up and get ready for one fun-filled evening.

Again, it was Shashi who chose the spot for the evening. It was Bar Stock Exchange, a pub that wasn’t that far away from our place. To Rocket’s delight, it was Bollywood night as well that day. As a typical me, I settled over a mocktail and snacks, whereas the rest of the gang rejoiced on some good drinks. And, of course, we danced all night crazily to the fast phases songs that the DJ played. The best part of the night was celebrating Sashi’s birthday at the stroke of midnight with a cake and special wishes from the DJ.

Think, we all thought that the night was still young and unanimously decided to walk to the room instead of taking a cab. And that was definitely one of the best decisions, and our conversations and random singing made the walk worthwhile. The craziness didn’t stop there. Instead of going to our rooms and dozing off, we sat outside the homestay and discussed life and philosophy over the Breezers that we bought yesterday. It was not just that. We even ordered and had Falooda at 2 am sitting inside Rocket’s car. Believe me, that was one hell of an experience. It was past 2 am when we hit the bed, and that’s how one awesome day came to an end.

Day 4 – 12th Sep 2021

We checked out the room early in the morning, intending to reach Chennai before the night. As Kavi planned to meet her friends for breakfast, Rocket and I headed to Shashi’s place in Secundrabad to drop him. As usual, Shashi suggested one nice place near his home where we had some yummy Idli and Vada for breakfast. After dropping Sashi, we picked up Kavi at her friend’s place and said Bid Adieu to the city of pearls, Hyderabad.

Though the roads leading to the highways were narrow and congested, the scene totally changed when connected to the Highways. The route looked totally scenic, complemented with pleasant weather. We even stopped in the middle for a few clicks.

Then, we halted for lunch at a restaurant on the highway that served spicy Rayalaseema-style food, for lunch. Considering the long journey ahead, we limited our food to some Biriyani, Naan, and Curry.

To our surprise, we had some issues with the FastTag and made us stop at countless tool booths and pay by cash. Luckily, one tool booth on the way helped us replace the faulty FastTag with a new one. Not just that, somewhere near Tirupathi, we got stuck in traffic for more than a couple of hours, and that made our plan to reach Chennai before night far from reality.

It was already past 9 when we reached Nagari, a town on the Tamil Nadu – Andra border. Luckily, we spotted a small cafe there. To our surprise, they served some really yummy food.

From there, we headed straight to Chennai, and it was well past midnight when Rocket dropped me at my home. And that’s how an awesome trip came to an end.

You Are Two & We Are Too

Dear Iniyaal,

I hope you are happy and healthy.

I was supposed to write you this on the 27th of this month, i.e., on your birthday. But Appa became busy and somehow managed to write it now. I have permanently dedicated the August month blog posts for your mom and us. Likewise, the November month one would be yours forever. If wondering why I am writing this, kindly refer to last year’s birthday post and the one I shortly wrote after you were born.

You just turned two a couple of days ago, and your mom and I are soo happy. It’s not just you who is growing up fast, but also us who are evolving as parents. Last birthday you were just a toothless fairy who was crawling. But now, you have become one little angel who has tooth grown up and started walking too. At times it’s hard to cope up with you, your nimble activities, and your overwhelming love, but we somehow manage to catch up. And, you have this superpower of makeup for it with your cute smile.

P.S. People say you smile more or less like me, and it makes me quite happy every time I hear it.

Just like me, you also love and enjoy music. Just that, your taste for songs is more like your mom than mine. The following are some of your current favorites, and you wouldn’t even eat without listening to them. I am sure your taste in music would have changed by now, but give these songs a chance. Who knows, you might even start liking them again.

Also, earlier you would only sleep when your mom rocks you. But, lately, you only sleep when I sing to you. Probably you are the only person in this world who likes me singing. If you think you drowse to lullabies, you are absolutely wrong. The below are your fav bedtime songs. I know you would probably be hating me now for singing them horribly. But, all you wanted to know was, Appa tried his best :D.

Your key highlights this year are

  1. You started walking
  2. You started eating on your own (selected foods)
  3. You went to the movie theatre for the very 1st time (Annatha)
  4. Attended a wedding reception for the 1st time (Brags Mama and Ashwini Mami’s)

Most importantly, you started calling me “Appa.”. I used to be a bit jealous of your mom cos, “Amma” was the only word that came out of your mouth for a while.

Now let’s come to your 2nd birthday.
It was raining cats and dogs (don’t take it literally) on the week of your Birthday in Chennai. But, luckily, though there was a forecast, there was no rain, and the weather was pleasant in the morning. So, just like your last birthday, we went to the same 1000+ years old temple as suggested by your mom. As usual, you enjoyed going out and the temple atmosphere.

Later in the eve, despite the rain, we went to Sindhu Aunty’s Daughter, Ahanaa’s 1st birthday party. Appa was never good with clothes and fashion. But, Appa chose the one you dressed for the evening, and you were looking absolutely adorable, like one cute doll only. You seemed to enjoy the party, especially around here and there.

To my surprise, your Aunts and Uncles gave you amazing gifts. I am giving you all except for the present from Deepu Mama, the green Dinosaur. Really sorry Iniyaal, kindly forgive me for the same. Also, your Raji Aunty has left you an important note written on a unique postcard along with the set of colorful children’s books that she got for you. I am preserving it for sure. But, just in case if I have lost it, please read it from below.

Like I have said in the two previous letters, love and respect your mom, cos she loves you more than anything else and spends a lot of time and energy taking care of you.

Be Happy and Keep Smiling. Love you a lot.

Your Awesome Loving Dad,
Gokoulane

Tour de Pondy

As I promised in the last blog post, this blog post is about another best thing that happened this September, apart from the Hyderabad trip. Also, as I mentioned, I am writing this after completing a significant milestone, and it’s something that I have wanted to do for a long time. I hear you screaming, “Enough of the build-up,” especially if you are one of my friends whom I spammed enough.

So, here we go.

I rode a Hercules Ryders Neo, a hybrid, for 8+ years and decided to upgrade to a road bike. After a lot of thought, searching, saving up, and long waiting, I finally got myself one. It’s a Polygon Bikes Strattos S3 2021, and It definitely felt like a dream come true for me.

Clicked when I had to give the Neo for exchange

There were too many challenges. The road bikes were in huge demand due to the COVID19 situation. The cost also went a bit up, compared to what I have saved. Most importantly, approval from relevant stakeholders :D. But, somehow, I managed it all. I was supposed to take the cycle delivery on 10th September. However, due to the sudden Hyderabad trip plan, I got it delivered on 9th September itself. I remember feeling quite happy about it while riding the new Rodie home from the cycle store.

Now to the “Significant Milestone” part. I wish I could give a detailed account. But, I am physically and mentally exhausted to do the same. So, I am keeping it really brief. Also, it’s not just an achievement for me, but one of my dreams for quite a long time.

I know you might have guessed it easily from the title itself. But, if you are someone who doesn’t follow cycling and thought I went on a typical tour to Pondicherry, you are wrong, and let me explain quickly. I named the ride similar to the “Tour de France,” the most sought-after professional bicycle race in the world. In a nutshell, I rode my cycle to Pondicherry and back.

It was a group ride with my awesome fellow INCG (Idhu Namba Cycling Group) riders. That includes 7th and 11th Grade school students (I can’t even call them Kids after seeing them ride). The onward ride was very much manageable except for the last 40 km due to heat and elevation. I can’t really express my joy in words after reaching the Pondicherry entrance.

However, the return ride was not that eventful. In addition to the fatigue from last day’s ride, Right from the beginning, heavy headwinds and elevation were giving us a tough time. In the later part of the ride, rain joined the team to make it even worse. Despite these snags, as a team, we motivated each other, and with some determination, we somehow managed to complete the ride.

This “Significant Milestone” is one such rare instance where I feel proud of myself. And, of course, I celebrated this with a bottle of my favorite Breezers, as usual. Now all I need is some rest for a couple of days 😀

Trip To Remember – HiTech Hyderabad – Part 1

This month turned out to be quite an awesome one for me. A couple of great things happened, and this blog post is strictly about one of them. Of course, I have reserved a dedicated blog for the second one. I think it would be only apt to post about it after crossing some significant milestone (just a lane excuse, sorry lame excuse for being lazy). But, pinky promise.

How it started

September 9th, 2021, turned out to be one of the memorable days in my life for a couple of reasons, and this trip is definitely one of them. It was KavinNila’s (Kavi) birthday that day, so Remya (aka Rocket) and I got into a WhatsApp video call to wish her. And, of course, and as usual, Sashi was busy to join the call. I am sure you remember these friends from our Delhi-Amritsar-Agra trip. A couple of months ago, in a similar video call, we were actually discussing making a trip to Hyderabad to get a break and meet Sashi. Unfortunately, that didn’t materialize, courtesy of the COVID second wave. So, while on the call, it hit us that it was a long weekend ahead, and in the spur of the moment, we decided to go on a road trip to Hyderabad and start that day evening itself. Indeed, it was so kind of respective family members to give permission (“Ekkedavauthu Po”) for the trip on such short notice. Especially my supportive and understanding wife Bansky.

That Iconic Video Call – Look at our smiley faces 😀

How It Went

Day 1 – 9th Sep 2021

As we were all traveling in Remya’s Car, as planned, she went all the way to Pondicherry to pick up Kavi first. Meanwhile, I was also trying to complete a significant task (which also made the day memorable) in advance that I intended for the next day. So, I got ready after minimal packing, including cleaning my dirty shoes with baby wipes (makeshift madness), and finally got picked up by both of them around 8 pm.

Once we started, I realized that Remya was having a hectic day with one of her projects going live and was on continuous calls since departing from Pondy. It was astonishing max to see her handle both driving and client calls at the same time. At times we paused in the Bypass for her calls to get completed, and unfortunately, her calls kept on extending and finally concluded only around 11 pm when we reached Red Hills. By that time, we were all hungry and stopped at Doni Ka Daba along the highway for a quick dinner.

Quickly after dinner, we stopped by the nearest petrol bunk (gas station) to fill the tank to sustain us till our destination. The night ride was pure fun; conversations along with AR Rahman and Ilayaraja hits kept us awake most of the time. Only around midnight, while crossing Tamil Nadu – Andhra Pradesh border, we realized that we were yet to book our stay. Thanks to aggregation apps, we quickly coordinated with Sashi and booked our stay around Madhapur. One of the memorable moments that night was, Remya stopping the car suddenly in the middle of the highway, got out, and started dancing for a beat song. Being an early sleeper, I tried my max to stay awake and sparsely napping in between. However, I completely dozed off around 2 am when Remya stopped the car for a short nap.

Day 2 – 10th Sep 2021

I woke up around 5.30 am when Remya stopped at a Petrol Bunk for refueling. I thought she also got dozed off, but to my surprise, she seemed to have pulled off an all-nighter. Around 6.30 am, we reached Andra Pradesh – Telangana border and stoped by a bridge over the Krishna River for some fresh air and some awesome pics. As we were all hungry, we were looking for eateries around. Luckily not too far, we found one run by 2 sisters serving hot Idlis, Pooris, Crispy Bonda & Vada with an out-of-the-world green chili chutney. After our yummy breakfast, around 7.30 am, we resumed our non-stop journey towards Hyderabad and checked in to our stay at Hyderabad around 10 am.

Being sleep-deprived and tired after a night-long ride, I happily assumed that we gonna rest till eve. But, to my surprise, Shashi called us around noon and informed us that we were going out for lunch and he would meet us at the restaurant. The coordinates he shared led us to Teluguneese, an Authentic Regional Cuisine Restaurant. The day being Ganesh Chaturthi, the restaurant offered us one yummy Puliyodarai/Puliyogare as complimentary, and for the same reason, Shashi and Kavi opted for Veg that day. Whereas, Remya and I started with some soup, then yummy Kodi Veppudu (Chicken Fry) for staters, and Ragi Sangati with one mouth-watering Kodi Pulusu (Chicken Curry) for the main course. We finally finished the meal with some HOT Gulabjamun for the dessert.

After quite a heavy meal, we decided to take a walk around that area, and it ended up as a walk down the memory lane for Kavi. Yes, she is an alumnus of the prestigious National Institute of Fashion Technology (NIFT) Hyderabad, and her college was nearby. She took us to her favorite Ratnadeep Supermarket, then to a Balaji Temple around the corner from the Supermarket, which she claims to serve amazing Pongal on Saturdays. Finally, to the gates of the NIFT campus and shared a few of her college time stories with us.

After completing the walk, we decided to go back to the room. But, a conversation between Sashi and Kavi led us to the Durgam Cheruvu Lake. To our surprise, the lake features an 800-year-old Bonsai in the entrance. Again we took a quick walk around the lake before returning back to our stay.

After getting freshened up, we booked a cab and headed straight to Zero40, one of the sought-after Microbreweries in Hyderabad. While Sashi and Remya ordered the Beer tasters to start and eventually agreed to get a pint of Old Timer, a craft beer. Whereas Kavi and I decided to go with mocktails as usual. OMG, that place also served lip-smacking starters, especially the Hyderabadi style Chicken 65. Of course, their Stuffed Mushroom and Salad tasted great too.

I also planned to meet my Chennai Blogging Club (CBC) friend Sindhu during this trip. I visited Hyderabad for the 1st time for her wedding. And, also had an awesome time going around the old Hyderabad and trying out a lot of yummy local flavors during my 2nd visit to the city. Luckily, her house was only walking distance from the Brewery. So, instead of traveling all the way back the next day, I requested guys to spare me a few minutes and decided to pay a quick visit to her. I was delighted to meet her and her husband Kiran after a long time and her Little One Aahana for the very first time.

Returning to the Brewery, I ordered one more portion of Chicken 65, continued our conversation, and belatedly celebrated Kavi’s Birthday with a yummy Cheese Cake. We had such an awesome time, and the smile on the pics would say it all.

This is Us

After having such a marvelous time filled with food, nostalgia, and conversation, it was already around midnight when we returned to the stay. Though we were dead tired after such a long and eventful day, we weren’t ready to call it a day. Shashi ordered some flavorsome Biriyani and Egg starters from his favorite Shag Ghouse, and we continued our conversation over it for a couple of more hours before heading to bed. And that’s how an awesome day came to an end.

To Be Continued …

Bansky & Lane – 3 Years of Togetherness

Before two years, I decided to permanently dedicate the August month’s blog post for my Significant Other, Banupriya (aka) Bansky. If you have been regularly following my blog, you must have already guessed the occasion by now. Yes, it’s her birthday and our anniversary today (30th August).

With my sincere efforts to gift her something priceless, I have put in my precious time (“Sir Romba Busy”) and all of my creativity to pen this one. (Or) It might just be my way of making up for not gifting her anything significant. I leave it to her to decide.

As one of my friends recently mentioned, she is one of the best things that happened to me ever. How true. For this anniversary, she gifted me Veerayuga Nayagan Velpari, a book that I wanted to read for a while. She even said no to anything expensive as I can save up and get something I am passionate about. 😭😭😭 “Emotion Ah Kora.., Emotion Ah Kora..” (Stop getting emotional).

We had a wonderful day with wishes from loved ones and a lovely lunch date at one of her favorite places. We ate so much that we were in a food coma most of our time way back. Despite 4 hours of travel each way, we had quite a relaxed dining out after a long time and that felt really good. Seriously missing our “Us Time” since Iniyaal was born and parenting keeping us busy all the time. Finally, some short escape from the daily chaos by the mercy of my In-Laws. Totally a great day to remember.

Dear Bansky,

As usual, I am short of words to convey my love and gratitude.

All I can say is, thanks for being a great support. It would have been really tough for me to get over the tough times without you. It’s as much truth as much as it sounds cliche.

Cheers to many more awesome years of togetherness ahead.

Yours Awesomely
Lane

P.S.: I Hate You.

Movie Watching – Never Like Before

If procrastination is an Olympic sport, I am sure I would have bagged a medal for my country and make people proud. Unfortunately, that’s not the case. I think it’s better to stop discussing my chances of representing India in the Olympics and dive straight into the topic.

With just a couple of hours left for the month to end, I was still contemplating the topic. Somehow, my mind magically recollected my below reply to my friend Raji’s tweet early this month and decided to write something along those lines.

Kindly don’t presume and mistake me for a movie buff. Quite like the majority, I watch movies for the sake of entertainment. Just that, I don’t restrict myself to any particular genre or language. Also, when it comes to a cinema, I usually don’t have a lot of expectations. I generally have no clue about the nuances and technicalities. I am happy when the movie engages and entertains me, and watching one that I can connect and relate to is definitely blissful. It’s not just for films and holds good for other art forms as well, be it music or literature. All I do is enjoy them to the liking of my thoughts and perception.

When I was young, even until my early college days, it was only one new movie per year, and that too my parents took us to the theatre only on their wedding anniversaries. Also, till my sister completed her higher secondary schooling, we didn’t have a satellite (cable) TV connection at home, and the movies broadcasted in DD Podhigai were old and repetitive. The worst part was my parents seldom allowed us to watch TV, and I grew up listening to the radio predominantly. So, the day they take us to the movie theatre would be the most expected and exciting day of the year. The theatre-going excitement pivoted around the experience of watching something on a big screen and the softy & the popcorn during the interval. I don’t even remotely remember being curious about the movie itself. For this, the Maharani Theatre would always be evergreen in my memories, followed by MSM and Bharath Theatre.

Things started to change once I entered the college. With a cable TV connection at home, we started watching more recent movies. Also, as a family, we began to go to the theatre more frequently than before. And, when it comes to the movie choice, the prominent decisive factor is Suresh Kumar, the person who presents the “Top 10 Movies”, a movie review and countdown show that aired once a week on Sun TV. His reviewing style is precise and expressed in very few words. Then came the computer at home. Sincere thanks to Praveen, my college friend who diligently downloaded aXXo prints (700 MB DVD rips) even with his dial-up connection and Prakash Anna for his DVD collection, I started watching English movies. I also fondly remember cutting the college and watching First Day First Show (FDFS) of Avatar at Satyam Theatre Main Screen that too the “A” Row. And, that’s the only FDFS so far.

Those days, the prime factor that kindled a lot of interest in an upcoming movie was its songs. Typically songs were released as a whole album (no singles) like a couple of months before the movie release, and it didn’t require much marketing, except for the posters. Along with the Hero factor, more hit the songs more expectations on the movie. Even the trailers were played only at theatres at the beginning of a film or at the interval.

But, with an increase in internet penetration that gave rise to Social Media, YouTube and OTT platforms, the entertainment ecosystem has totally transformed now. I also think things have become overwhelming from both filmmakers and the audience end. Starting from Title launch, Announcement, First Look, Teaser, Audio Track List, Trailer, and Promo Campaigns, the list of activities before a movie release keeps going. Especially when the movie is from a famous production house and with a stellar cast, these activities build up a lot of excitement and expectations among the audience, which most times end up negatively for the film.

Also, gone are the days when people only reviewed the movie. Things these days are totally crazy with people even reviewing the first look posters and what’s even worse is, publishing a review of a review. I have no idea where this analysis paralysis would lead us to. And, It’s highly frustrating for the people like me who watch a movie just for the sake of entertainment and nothing else.

Though I wish, the movie-watching experience for me can never be like before. Though the technology has drastically improved to provide better visuals and sounds on a much bigger screen, even watch the movie at home on the release date. But, I don’t think it would bring back the excitement I had as a kid.

Sincerely awaiting next Valimai update…

Me And The Water Tanker

Usually, I tend to publish my blog post at the last hour of the last day of the month. But, this time, being heavily inspired by the short essays of Bragadeesh Prasanna Anna and Karthik Pasupathi Ji, I decided to write one early, a short one from my childhood too.

I wonder how many of you have ever seen a Water Tankers. Most of you might have seen it as a part of movie scenes, where people fight for their pot of water. But, for people like me who grew up in North Chennai, Thanni Lorry (how we call it colloquially) is an integral part of our lives. Even when someone rash drives on the road, people typically swear, Nee Thanni Lorryla Adipattu Sagapora (You will get hit by a water tanker and die). Cos, these lorries had a track record of reckless driving and the root cause for many accidents. Never mind, Just North Chennai things.

Randomly thinking about Watter Lorries, a couple of memories flashed in my mind.

The first one was when I was a kid and trying to learn cycle. Those days, I used to be stout (imagine a cute chubby kid) and had immense difficulty learning to cycle. My area Annas (brothers) and my cousin took up the responsibility to somehow make me ride the bicycle. We also used to have this concept of Hour Cycle where cycle shops usually rent cycles on hourly rates. And, typically used these to rental Bicycles to learn. In one such instance, I lost my balance while riding and went straight under the front tires of a Water Tanker. Luckily, the driver tactfully applied the brake, and I escaped with minor bruises. Unfortunately, the cycle suffered some damage, and my parents had to pay the store owner.

The second one is much more personal than the first. I studied at the Broadway Don Bosco school from my LKG to 2nd Class. At the same time, my dad used to work as a Time Keeper at the Chennai Metrowater pumping station across the most famous Stanley Hospital. His main job is to schedule and allocate Water Lorries to different locations. The pumping station also got a filling point where the lorries fill water and then deliver it to its designated neighborhood. Earlier I used to go to school by school bus. But, later, for a brief period, my dad scheduled the morning lorries for my neighborhood to match my school timings. Yes, you guessed it right. You might have seen kids going to school by walk, bus, train, auto, and even by car, but yours awesomely went to the school in Water Tanker for a while. As my dad starts quite early in the morning and has to cycle all the way to his work, my mom would also pack his lunch and send it along with me in the lorry. From there, my dad would take me in his cycle and drop me at the school nearby. A few other things quite vivid in my memory are the ever-crowded Stanley Hospital railway crossing and a fruit salad shop near it.

Thats all Folks.

Thoughts Untitled

Here we are, yet another month-end and yet another boring blog post.

Thanks to COVID and lockdown for temporarily taking out travel and treks off my life. Things that I love and enjoy writing on. Without these, I have nothing much exciting to write. With a couple of hours left for the day to end, I am just letting my thoughts flow this time. It’s going to be a lot of musings, so if you wanted to skip, this is the best time.

May might be a least favorite month, at least for the people of my city due to the blazing heat. But, for me, it has always been the favorite of all. It’s the month that always kept me excited. Not just because of May 4th, Star Wars Day (“May The Force Be With You”), but also cos it’s also my birthday month. During school days, my birthday always comes during the summer holidays, so no chance of celebrating with my friends. During my college days, 3 out of 4 years, I had semester exams on my birthday. For the rest of 1 year, it was an exam prep day. How unfortunate; my birthdays used to be such a low-key thing. Finally, things changed when I started working. Eventually, I had birthday celebrations at my workplace, and with my friends, it made it even more exciting and a day to anticipate.

The last birthday was the craziest ever and definitely not in a positive sense. It was amid the 1st wave of the COVID lockdown and was in the worst lows of my life. At the same time, my daughter was a bit sick and got admitted to the hospital; she was discharged only a couple of days before my birthday. Being laid off from work, I was actively job hunting as well. As a blessing in disguise, the only comfort was a video that my wife Bansky made compiling wishes from most of my close friends, which gave me a lot of hope during such a tough time.

Again, this birthday also turned out to be a lockdown birthday. That too, during a much worse 2nd wave. Things turned out to be better for me this time on both the personal and professional fronts. Also, I received a ton of hearty wishes from loved ones that made me feel blessed. But at the same time, the bitter and harsh reality outside sucks big time.

Trigger Warning – COVID Death
During the 1st wave, despite COVID infections in the close family and friends circle, luckily, there wasn’t any fatality. But that wasn’t the case this time. Almost every day, I heard some bad news from my close circle, and that really took a toll on my mental health. Either it was someone infected and under medical care or some who lost their dear ones permanently. One thing that hit my family and myself really hard was the demise of my close school friend’s dad, who is also a close family friend. In fact, there wasn’t even a single function that happened at our home without their family present as a whole. I wish strength to my friend and his family.

All I could hope is that things turn better on my next birthday so that I can go out and celebrate with my friends and family. I wish the same for all of us. Till then, take care and stay safe.

My Not So Recent Obsession With K-Drama

It’s already the last day of the month, and I really had one hectic and productive week at work. As usual, I am deeply thinking about what to write about, with only a few hours left for the day to end. Two things are quite evident, it seems there is no end to my procrastination, and I have to write something, at least for the sake of writing. So, I finally decided to write about my not so recent liking for K Drama.

Initially, I assumed all K-Dramas are mushy romantic stories. Romance is my least favorite genre next to horror, and that kept me away from the K-Drama for a very long time. In fact, I even used to mock my sister for binge-watching them. This perception changed once I started watching a K-Drama out of the blue.

If you are unheard of it, K-Dramas are Korean television series produced and telecasted in South Korea. Typically produced in a mini-series format, K-Dramas tend to have 16 – 24 episodes and aired for a single season only. One thing that sets K-Drama apart from other soap and series is that they engage the viewers by adding more gravity to the character’s emotions and the plot. The only drawback I feel with K-Drama is their long episodes that typically run for more than an hour. It’s quite a stretch for someone like me who enjoys short 20 mins SitCom episodes. At times, it even takes me a couple of days to complete one episode.

The following are some of the KDaramas I enjoyed/enjoying watching. In the interest of time, I am using the same description as on Netflix/IMDB.

1. Start-up

Young entrepreneurs aspiring to launch virtual dreams into reality compete for success and love in the cutthroat world of Korea’s high-tech industry.

This one is the very first K-Drama that I started watching. The best part about this series is they explain a lot of start-up concepts as the story progresses.

2. Hospital Playlist

Hospital Playlist tells the story of five doctors who have been friends since they entered medical school in 1999.

Unlike other medical-related series that focuses on the diagnosis, treatments, etc., this one predominantly surrounds the life of 5 friends who are doctors and emotions of their patients and their families.

3. Vincenzo

During a visit to his motherland, a Korean-Italian mafia lawyer gives an unrivaled conglomerate a taste of its own medicine with a side of justice.

This my current favorite K-Drama. The best part is that the humor and the comedy just run with the characters and not deliberately placed. Out of all, I loved the performance of Song Joong-ki and Jeon Yeo-been throughout the series.

4. Reply 1988

Follows the lives of 5 families living on the same street in a neighbourhood called Ssangmundong in Seoul. A nostalgic look back at the year 1988.

This one I started watching after someone recommended it on a Twitter Space. One key factor I love about this series is the attention to detail when depicting objects such as video game consoles, Television, and other things popular in the 80s. Irrespective of the country, you can relate to a lot in this series if you grew up with friends in a close neighborhood.

5. Descendants of The Sun

A soldier belonging to the South Korean Special Forces falls in love with a beautiful surgeon. However, their relationship is short-lived as their professions keep them apart.

I started watching this series for Song Joong‑ki, the same lead actor of Vincenzo. Just completed a couple of episodes so far.

Let me know your favourite K-Dramas if any.